What It Really Looks Like to Travel as a Founder, Mom, and Human
Let’s talk about business travel. Because from the outside, it can look kind of glamorous, right? Flights, hotels, dinners, new cities… all the things.
But if you’re a founder. And a mom. And someone trying to keep your faith, your health, your marriage, and your sanity intact…it looks different than you might think.
There’s a lot of beauty in it. There’s also a lot of mental strain.
So, I wanted to share what this actually looks like for me: how I prepare, how I show up while I’m gone, and what I’ve learned (sometimes the hard way).
Before I Go: Setting Everyone Up (Including Me)
I’ve learned this one along the way.
Preparation isn’t about control. It’s about creating systems that help the people you love succeed when you’re not there. Because let’s be honest…If everything falls apart while you’re gone, you’re not showing up well anywhere. So, before I leave, I slow down enough to set the house and family as a whole, up for success:
The family calendar is locked. Everyone knows where they’re supposed to be, when, and who’s getting them there.
We lean on our community. Carpool swaps, other parents, teammates; we don’t do this alone.
The kids have jobs. And not fake ones. Real responsibilities. It gives them ownership and honestly… they rise to it.
We create a countdown. Especially when they were younger, something visual so they know, “Mom’s coming back in X days.”
And something I’ve become really intentional about: I pour into my husband before I leave. Because he’s the one holding it down. He’s carrying the weight at home so I can go do what I do.
And this very much matters.
While I’m Away: Letting Go Without Checking Out
This part used to be hard for me. Actually… really hard.
Because when you’re used to running everything, the instinct is to stay in it from afar. Texting. Checking. Double-checking. Micromanaging from 500 miles away is… not cute. And not effective.
So, I’ve had to learn:
Trust what we built. If I’ve set it up right, it will run.
Stay connected, not controlling. Only step in if absolutely necessary, trust your team and the systems in place.
Be present where my feet are. Keep y our phone close in case your family needs you, but flip it over and stay engaged in the moment: in the travel, in the conversations, and in the people, you intentionally made the time to be there for. Constantly stepping away or sneaking off to stay buried in what’s happening back home takes away from the very investment you made to show up in the first place.
I still carve out intentional time with my kids, even if it’s quick.
A bedtime call.
A morning hype-up.
A text to my bigger kids “hey, I see you, I’m proud of you for helping.”
And something I am trying to do more and more of as the kids get bigger: I give them a window into my world.
I’ll show them what I’m working on. Tell them about the project. Let them feel like they’re part of it. Because when they understand the “why,” the distance feels different.
And one more thing we don’t always talk about… kids worry. Even when they don’t say it. I’m intentional about reminding them: “I’m safe. I’m taken care of. I’m coming home.”
Simple. But it matters.
In the Middle of It All: Me
Here’s the part I used to skip.
Taking care of myself while on the road. Now? Non-negotiable. Because if I’m not good, none of this works anyway.
So yes:
I’m still getting my active time and exercise in (even if it’s not perfect)
I’m still prioritizing what I’m putting in my body
I’m still carving out quiet time, even if it’s just a few minutes to breathe, pray, and reset
I pack ALL the things I need to stay consistent – vitamins, peptides, hydration packs, healthy snacks, clean products, etc.
I’ve learned I don’t travel well if I abandon myself. I need to show up strong, mentally, physically, spiritually.
When I Come Home: Pay Attention
Coming home isn’t just… coming home. It’s a reset. It’s a check-in.
What worked?
What felt heavy?
What do we tweak next time?
And something I love (and learned from my own parents): give them something to look forward to! It doesn’t have to be big. But there’s something powerful about shifting the energy from “mom is leaving” to “we get her back, and we get this.”
The Truth No One Really Says
You can do this.
You can build a business. You can travel. You can lead. You can be present in your family. But it doesn’t happen by accident. It takes intention. It takes systems. It takes support.
And it takes letting go of the idea that you must do it all perfectly.
You don’t.
You just have to do it on purpose. At the end of the day, this isn’t really about travel.
It’s about trust.
It’s about leadership at home and at work. It’s about building something that doesn’t fall apart when you step away from it. And it’s about remembering:
You don’t need permission to go
You don’t need permission to build
You don’t need permission to show up fully in your calling.
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XOXO busy bees,
Melissa
Written in collaboration with Holland Webber